bahchewychomp

Just me and thoughts, about life, what's irking my ire, cool happenings I find on here, I'm trying my best to post more stuff :D
A GD #pumpkinporter at #hawthornehophouse 😋👍 never have I encountered this kind of #deliciousness #oakshire #bigblackjack

A GD #pumpkinporter at #hawthornehophouse 😋👍 never have I encountered this kind of #deliciousness #oakshire #bigblackjack

Hmmm, does this pose remind you of anyone @nicolehimes? #kaiken #dogstagram #sleepy #backpawsout #frontpawsdown

Hmmm, does this pose remind you of anyone @nicolehimes? #kaiken #dogstagram #sleepy #backpawsout #frontpawsdown

Classic, apparently the only good movie based on an snl skit after Wayne’s World was Machruber. Rubbish I say!

(Source: shygirl364, via fuckyeah1990s)

The three ingredients that make Scott Pilgrim what it is in my book.

The three ingredients that make Scott Pilgrim what it is in my book.

What you SHOULD say to people dealing with any of these

  • Anxiety: This too shall pass, even if that sounds corny and cliche. Your anxiety will subside, you are not dying, you will not die from this, everything is going to be fine. Keep taking deep breaths, try and stay focused.
  • Depression: You are valid and your emotions are valid. You are a good, strong person, even if you don't feel like you are right now. Things DO get better, and I know you can get through this.
  • Sexual Orientation: Your body, your life, your bedroom. You choose what you do with it, and I get no say in the matter, because I am not you. I'll respect you no matter what.
  • Bipolar: The sun also rises. For all your bad days, weeks, or longer-- you also have good ones just beyond the horizon. You know better than anyone what it means to finally hit those "highs" in your life, and I hope that you just keep growing and strengthening yourself through your treatment to extend those happy moments.
  • Self harm: This is your body and I'll never pass judgement over you for the things you choose to do with it. However, you should really consider speaking with a counselor about this. Not because you're "bad", but because I just want you to be safe.
  • Eating disorders: It's okay to eat, you have permission. Eating will not make you fat, ugly, or worthless. Eating will make you strong, healthy, and lively. You deserve to eat, you deserve happiness.
  • Abuse: What they did was wrong, and you had no consenting part in it. You have no need to feel guilty or shamed, although I understand that may be exactly how you are feeling right now. They're the ones at fault here, and the ball is entirely in your court if you choose to report them for that, which you are rightfully entitled to do.
  • Suicide: Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You are valuable and your existence is valuable. There are billions of people on this planet, and even if you think everyone hates you and no one cares, they do and they will. You can find so many friends and loved ones if you just allow yourself the time to look for them. The world turns out to be a beautiful place and you deserve to be alive to see that.
  • Sexual assault: What they did was vile and disgusting. Yes, you're now left with this horrible, traumatic event to move on from, but your life is not entirely lost. Recovery is possible, and an unfortunately large number of people have to go through that-- but they make it to the other side. So can you, you can do this. You're not dirty, you're not a "slut" or a "whore", you are a human being whose rights were violated. But you are strong, and I know you can move past this in due time.
  • Multiple Personality Disorder: I'll always love you no matter who you are. I only hope the absolute best for you during your recovery and treatment, and maybe one day I'll be so privileged as to love you as one whole.
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: The pain of suddenly reliving horrific events is almost unimaginable for me. Please try and remember that although it feels like it's real and it's happening right now, that it's not. You are okay, you are fine, and you are safe. You are in the present here and now, and that past can't manifest itself again to come and physically hurt you. Everything is just fine, these feelings will pass and you're going to be okay.
  • Schizophrenia: I am real and I can promise you that. I care. Try and find something grounding for you, an object that you can cling to to help you distinguish between whether or not you're hallucinating. You are not a freak, you are not a monster. You're a human being with rights and emotions who happens to be ill right now.

Comfortable and Tame

In the last 3 hours I’ve had 4 whiskey-cokes, hookah, and a hydro; I’d say I’m ‘comfortably sauced’. Yet the thing concerning the word ‘comfortably’ is it’s confused to be synonymous with the word ‘tame’. If you’re a ‘real American’ who want to have a good time, the tendency is to push it as far as you can. Contextually speaking, one must reach the point right before/ way after comfortably is no longer vocabulary or a factor in decision making; that way all boundaries are long gone, where true disregard can reign. Anyone who says otherwise is a ‘pussy’.

ilovecharts:

Illuminating Quotes, Visualised. Part I:
“Ours is a culture and a time immensely rich in trash as it is in treasures.”
- Ray Bradbury 
by mappleton 

Quite true

ilovecharts:

Illuminating Quotes, Visualised. Part I:

“Ours is a culture and a time immensely rich in trash as it is in treasures.”

Ray Bradbury 

by mappleton 

Quite true

The lowest common demonimator

I like how a good chunk of people who over-complain are the ones who only deal with first world problems on a regular basis . Not to say they don’t have real problems, but just so happen to vocalize those a lot less than the problems that would expose any such facade they are putting on. Seriously, what’s the point of trying to run the rat race certain media centers and products have us exposed to in a constant stream of technological nonsense near-constantly? The sooner that more people realize that if you are comfortable with yourself, find that special source/talent that makes you feel like the invincible shit with no stoppage, the sooner bullshit can decrease significantly and we won’t need prepackaged nonsense choosing our lives for us.

This drawing is inspired by a picture. Her name is Tamitha and I think she might be my soul mate :) We get along very well and like many of the same things.

This drawing is inspired by a picture. Her name is Tamitha and I think she might be my soul mate :) We get along very well and like many of the same things.

People should be afraid of the cops,

the same way they are afraid of any other criminal organization, sure they aren’t gunning for you at this moment; but at the drop of a hat they can fuck your life up over little to no reason other than getting off on the power they hold over us, concerning the little infractions.